How it works . . .
The foundation of our work together is the brilliant National Bestselling book, Calling in “The One,” written by Katherine Woodward Thomas.
Rachelle Lee Reichley is a Certified Calling in “The One” Coach—trained by Katherine Woodward Thomas—the author of the bestselling book and program creator.
What Calling In “The One” isn’t.
This is not a “One size fits all” approach with specific strategies for dating. While we may work together to decide on specific action steps, this is a highly personal process and each person will have a different journey on their way to their beloved.
While you may find yourself coming to this work to fulfill a deep longing for a soul partner, the journey is its own reward. This course facilitates a coming home to yourself—a commitment to yourself that will infuse every facet of your life.
This is not an externally focused process. The work is internal and spiritual in nature. It’s about becoming magnetic to love, as opposed to desperately trying to make it happen.
The Calling In “The One” book is organized so that each lesson and chapter builds on the last as you gain awareness and investigate your shadowy places. The work continues to build momentum as you liberate yourself from the shackles of your past to claim your worthiness and desirability—finally free, fully yourself, and a full-bodied YES TO LOVE.
Logistics
We will meet via zoom for weekly or bi-weekly, 75-minute sessions as you work your way through the material of the book, which is designed to be completed in 49 days. If you’d like a little more time to complete each chapter, you may want to choose the bi-weekly option. I have added one extra session to my coaching package, for a total of eight sessions, based on my experience with clients often needing a little extra time to process during Weeks Two and Three, but you can use your “extra” session at any time during the eight weeks. Our sessions will cover each of the 7 key lessons in the book, including the introduction—as outlined in the “Session Overview” below.
Session Overview
01 — Session 1, Intro & Chapter One—Preparing for Love
In our first session, we cover the core premises, principles, and framework of the Calling in “The One” process and begin the process of becoming generative of love by identifying your needs in relationship, bringing awareness to the ways in which your relationships have mirrored your relationship to yourself. You begin to discover what your vision of love fulfilled feels like and to start creating space in your life to receive it.
02 — Session 2, Chapter 2—Completions
In our second session you begin unearthing and releasing resentments and old agreements. You identify toxic ties and any meanings you have made about yourself inside your wounds of the past and begin to question those assumptions.
03 — Session 3, Chapter 3—Healing Core Wounds
In our third session you begin the transformative work of uncovering false identities you have created inside of intimate relationships and begin to source your power from a different space. You identify habituated ways of being and learn to embody new ways of being, along with releasing what is necessary to begin to embrace the things necessary to begin to move in the world in a way that is generative of love fulfilled.
04 — Session 4, Bonus Session
I have included this bonus session to fall after session two or three as extra time to process potentially deep emotions and hurt from our past.
05 — Session 5, Chapter 4—Setting Your Course
In our fifth session you begin to feel the uplift of the deep excavation of our prior sessions and you create a new vision of love fulfilled from your empowered self.
06 — Session 6, Chapter 5—First Things First
In our sixth session you make a solid commitment to yourself to set the foundation to receive the commitment you long for from your beloved. You learn how to honor your own needs and desires and tap into your inherent worthiness and desirability.
07 — Session 7, Chapter 6—A Life Worth Living
In our seventh session you surrender your need to make yourself or someone else wrong and identify your own capacity to self soothe in the face of disappointment. You become your own advocate by learning to articulate your needs and desires to others.
08 — Session 8, Chapter 7—Living Love Fulfilled
In our eighth and final session together you learn to cultivate resilience and establish ongoing practices to stay anchored in the embodiment of your vision of love fulfilled—learning to live from being a full-bodied yes to love.